Introverts are people who don't  think social interaction or attention are the most desirable things in the world.

因为内向的人只是不觉得交际和别人的关注是他们最渴望的事情。

They don't proactively seek these elements and also we know a lot of people who are introverts but they are great people,are nice and caring.

他们不会主动追求那些事情,我们也认识一些内向的人，也是很好的人，会关心他人的人。

Someone who is very outgoing,gregarious could be violent,could be angry.

一个很外向爱热闹的人也可能是一个暴力的，容易暴躁的人。

People and culture are two different concepts in my opinion.

The actual people we meet, like me, like you,we maybe somewhere along the line with our cultural norms，maybe we are completely different from the norms.

人和文化在我看来是两种不同的概念。

我们平时接触到的人，比如我，和你们，我们的行为可能和我们的文化准则基本吻合,也有可能做出和传统文化很不一样的事情。

Cultural norm is something that's tricky because it help people subject assumptionsabout another group.

文化规范这个概念有些危险,因为它容易帮助人形成对另一个群体的假设，不管是对的还是错的。

All of us have something that is extremely off-the-chart not average.

我们都有异于常人的一点。

I don't think extroversion is the necessary factor to succeed.

我并不认为外向是成功的必要条件。

The thing is we see more extroverts out there,precisely because of the difference between extroverts and introverts is that the extroverts tend to draw attention to themselves, they are more Okay with outspoken,speaking about themselves.

但是我们能见到更多的外向人，就因为内向人和外向人不同，外向人更会去吸引别人的注意力,他们更乐意去表达他们的观点。

I think all societies may have given extroverts more attention than they deserve or maybe we just haven't give the introverts the attention they deserve.

可能整个世界都给外向人很多关注，也或者是我们没有给内向人足够的关注。

Does introverts get overlooked?

如果这个问题是，内向人容易被忽略吗?

It is important to experience emotions such as happiness and excitement，while Chinese report that it is more important to experience stable and calm.

感受快乐和激动的情绪是重要的,中国研究对象称感受冷静和稳定更重要。

And because introverts tend to look quieter and calmer,being an introvert who is quiet and soft-spoken is more OK in China than in America.

由于内向的人看起来更安静和淡定，中国文化比美国文化更能接受一个安静低调的性格。

Turning down parties and invitations is more looked down upon there than when I was in China.

谢绝去参加社交活动在这里比在中国更受到“鄙视”。

Vice versa for Chinese,if they feel happy or excited but know that they supposed to feel stable and calm,this wouldn’t be healthy,either.

反之同理，如果中国人感到快乐激动但又觉得他们应该保持冷静，这样也不利于心理健康。

Being an extrovert does not guarantee you success or happiness in either place，being an introvert sucks more here in America

做个外向人不能保证你的成功或者快乐，无论是在中国还是美国,我觉得做个内向人在美国会比较惨。

I don't think you need to be someone else to succeed or be happy,cause if you force yourself to change a personality which supposedly you can't change your personality.

我认为你不需要变成另一个人去感受成功或者快乐,因为如果你勉强去改变你的性格,而且江山易改本性难移。

Life is full of dilemma like this whether you go out of your comfort zone or you stay with yourself。

人活着就是有很多两难的时候，要么走出你的舒适圈，要么就做你自己。

It's been a trial and error，you just have to do it. 

If you found that to be devastating,try something else,but if you found that to be rewarding,you must be doing something right.

对我来说这个过程就像是摸石头过河，你要去尝试，如果你觉得很难受，很绝望，尝试另一种方法，如果有一定的成效，那肯定是走对了某一步。